If you decide that you want to be with your partner after he/she was unfaithful than that is the decision you make and live with it. Not to long ago I read an article where the author said that she wont forget what that person did to her even though she forgave him. But is that real forgiveness? no I don't think so. I know it is not easy to forget after someone you love betrays you but you cannot live life happy with that person if it is still in your heart and mind. Obviously your heart is not a hard drive where things that happened can get wiped out instantly, but then again it is in a strange way. I think you can learn from that experience and become a stronger person and down the road even help someone you know who is going through the same agony you went through. But "not forgetting" should not be an option because all that will lead to is insecurities. Not forgetting its like having a seed of doubt planted in your heart an anything, in your mind, strange that your partner does you will began to doubt. You will begin to question his/her motives and sooner or later you will start reaching conclusions, which most likely, are wrong. That seed of doubt grows and trust me it will make you and your partner miserable, and many times you will look pretty ridiculous because of your insecurities.
So either you forgive and forget or just let it go. If you cannot let it go then let your partner go because you will only bring agony to the relationship down the line by never forgetting. When I was young and I would get hurt in my basketball team my coach would tell me " walk it off ". He was right, most of the time i'll be fine afterwards. So now I tell you the same if you got hurt by your loved one and you still want to be with that person then " walk it off ". Its that simple. Either you forgive and forget or move the fuck on.
over 40 hours a week, your world is pretty much, yeah you guessed it, co-workers. Other people live by always being around strangers, and sometimes deep inside being unhappy because their world has no intimate relationships, in other words, their world is temporary. 
and internet which can take hours of your time without realizing it and next thing you know that is your world, a virtual one. So to sum it up, your life is basically the people and things you surround yourself with, which leads to a daring question. What does this mean if you are unhappy or 
? Is this you? is this your fault for feeling this way? or is it the people around you? or the people in your past?Does this give you the right to blame your unhappiness on someone else? Obviously there maybe other things that you are unhappy about, such as bad life choices and circumstances. But overall if the people you choose to be around are not making your personal world better then maybe you are in the company of the wrong crowd, if this philosophy is right. Let this simmer down in your mind, give it some thought and let me know your opinion.
rain that is, so the best thing to do is basically live life. I have so many bills is not even funny and many I have to pay late every month, but should I get my glass of water and drown in it, get stressed out, get sick and die like a wounded deer that just got shot by a politician for a 
. NO! I gotta chill out. Do what I can to take care of the necessities for me and my family but I also got to live. So here is what I did just to give you some examples. I cut the cable and phone however i left the Internet, so I slashed like $60 from my bill. I downgraded to a cheap carrier and now I just pay $50 a month rather then $100. Rather then the movies or a bar, I do a lot more 
now and take a lot more strolls in the park, where I can read, listen to music and do what I love to do best, which is to think. Basically life has gotten more cheaper but more productive mentally thanks to the recession. So there, I left you a quick recipe on how to cook recession depression and make life out of it. #gottaloveit
